Welcome to the 2020 Spring Semester, SEL fans! Coming back into the classroom community in January after the holiday break is the perfect time to consider our next core competency: Relationship Skills. Per CASEL:
Social Beings Learn Relationship Skills
Since humans are hard-wired to be social animals, the idea that we have to intentionally learn and practice relationship skills might seem a little bit counter-intuitive. I mean, aren’t we just in relationship naturally? Well, truth is, we participate in relationships for better and for worse! But, growing our relationship skills purposefully via our self-awareness, self-management, and social awareness can help create meaningful connections with important people in our lives. In the context of education, cultivating and modeling relationship skills in the classroom is a crucial aspect of building a safe, inclusive, culturally responsive, academically engaging, and equitable learning environment.
Growing Relationship Skills
Since the core of relationship skills is building trust, this summary of Zaretta Hammond’s ideas for tapping into the brain chemistry of connection are some concrete ways that educators can hone their own practice of relationship-building with students. And, Edutopia’s series of four video interviews with neuroscience researcher Patricia Kuhl addresses various aspects of developing relationship skills in the classroom environment. Further, this collection of practices and resources from ASCD [Association for Supervision and Curriculum Development] provides insight into classroom management, class culture-building and student-family interactions, all with a relationship skills lens.
Relationships = Learning = Human Being
Learning is an essential element of being a human, as is connecting with other humans. Therefore, teachers continue to be the visionaries for humanity, exploring how learning and relationship skills are intricately enmeshed. How will you work on your own relationship skills in 2020 and help your students to build relationships among each other? Let us know in the comments, and tag us on social media @austinisdsel! Happy New Year!